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In the story you may question why God sides with Adam, Hmmm a macho God? The tragedy of what happened to her was the evil, the fact they made her evil is even more tragic My conclusion is she was an angry woman that was treated so badly filled with scars, unloved by the creator and trat d unfairly meanwhile ignorance prevailed and people enjoyed her suffering and horrific names they ve put onto her Meanwhile she was merely a woman who was treated like crap by Adam who showed to be nothing but an is cute soy boy who had to cry out to god to give him another woman… Weakness was his last name and no one talks about this. Not because he followed even, no no. Because “Eve” was an exact copy of him in genuine form and would comply like a little puppet to anything Sou Adam would want. I empathize with her story of as it seems represents the story of many of us woman in a world ruled by insecure patriarchs who dressed as strong by their weak egos. (As a nice so bellow)
“Why did she not ask the Lord to be the iudge between them? There is more than one answer to this riddle. First, the Lord is not a woman, and she might have feared that he could take her man’s party. Second, perhaps she was so hurt by Adam’s attitude that she could not bear the idea of having him in his life after such display of disrespect towards her. Finally, and this was perhaps the most important reason, she must have felt that her creator had failed her. Why had he not gone to her defense, why had he not rebuked her smug husband for wanting to subduc her and had not established clear rules for both of them, so that none would even think of trying to best the other? How could the God of justice bear to watch her husband try to force and humiliate her, and not interfere on her behalf?”
“Power is the key-word here: Lilith had indeed an unusual amount of power, first as the wife of man, then as an independent being who dared to say “no” to her partner and to her creator, and ultimately as the companion of God’s opponent, the Queen of Dread who spread terror and misery into the world. As long as she kept on sweeping away life, that is, killing new-born babies and dooming the souls of careless men, the angel of death granted her dominion over the whole land without hindrance. She was the mistress of her own deeds and decisions with the one, tiny exception of that old pact she had once made with God’s messengers. Unreciprocated love, from both her husband and her creator, was what led Lilith to act as she did, and the measure of her wickedness was only matched by the measure of her anguish when she felt that they had failed her. Her world was shattered, her reason foundered; she had to begin anew and forge herself a brand new way of life, in such a manner that she would never risk to be let down again.”
“She is the first woman to have allowed her emotions to meddle with such a simple commandment as to “be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth” (Gn 1:28). The Lord gave no special instructions about sentiment, or feelings, but only bid Adam and Lilith to healthily breed, and be happy among all the things he had given them. She was who exceeded his directions by far, and not only she brought on fright and chaos onto the world, but she also added new attributes to human-ity, the emotions, which she displayed and let loose, thus giving a new meaning to relations between men and, above all, between husband and wife.”
“What distinguished Lilith from all the other beings created by God - with the one exception of her second husband, Samael - was that she was brave enough to use the full strength of the power bestowed on her, when she was not supposed to do so, and even test it beyond every reasonable prevision. The force that drove her to such extremes was love, the same love quoted in the Bible in Song 8:6: ”[…] For love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave. Its flashes are flashes of fire, a raging flame”. God had bestowed upon Lilith his double nature, his bright side as his dark side. Thus she contained the beauty and power of creation, the strength of bliss and the arcane knowledge and wisdom that came to be the motor of so many works produced by human creativity. She turned these attributes to raging hatred and destruction, thus wasting the harmony the Lord had devised for his creation. Lilith personifies the sitra ahra (“the other side”) inherited from the creator, embodying the darkest feelings and emotions of men, while keeping the beauty and power of the bright side - a whole God’s image on earth.”